I read an article in the Kansas City Star this weekend that said "increased affluence hardly affects happiness." (The Star has a dumb-ass registration required link, so you'll have to hit bugmenot.com to get a password if you want to read the article itself.)
The article also says that people in rich countries are not happier than those in poorer ones.
I don't know what to make of it. In recounting the least happy times of my life, I immediately think of the times I was most poor (okay, that's most of my life, but still...). Things got better as more money came in. Even now, the most stress I have is about my dwindling savings and my (financial) concern for the future.
So, am I saying I don't believe this article, and all of the psychologists and sociologists they quote?
Yeah. I guess I am. I don't buy it. At least, in my experience, more money equals more happiness. I'm not saying one can buy happiness, but lack of money is a huge obstacle that makes happiness harder to obtain. The article quotes a financial planner who talks of happiness in relation to family and friends. But how much inner peace can you enjoy with your family if you're not sure they're going to be financially taken care of? You may love them, and they may bring you joy, but genuine happiness will be fleeting if you're having trouble keeping a roof over their head.
The article does say that this money≠happiness nonsense doesn't kick in until a certain income level; $40,000 or so. Below that, more money does indeed equal more happiness. But after that, they say, the connection between the two ends.
I'd like to find a family of four in Southern California making $40,000 and see if another $10,000 per year makes them happier. Of course it would.
This isn't just a greed argument. I'm talking about having the means to provide for the ones you love and feel secure. And to have the extra means to donate to charities and causes that matter to you. I know hippies will always disagree with me on this stuff; they'll agree that Maasai tribesmen in Africa are as happy as billionaires in the US (and for some reason they'll agree that it's okay to compare those two groups). But I don't listen to hippies when it comes to personal finance, and neither should you.
What's really happening here is typical "screw the rich" thinking. I'd like to see all of these studies done without very rich people included. Say, anyone worth more than half a million dollars. I bet working-class people in this country have about as much use for this "richer doesn't mean happier" nonsense as I do.
Why do I even care? Because the "you can't take it with you" attitude is a big part of the problem I wrestle with for a living. People are drowning in debt in this country because far too few of us consider saving to be important. People very close to me have that "what good is money if you're not going to spend it?" attitude, and the result is they have no money in the bank despite a lifetime of hard work. They're one serious illness away from being destitute. I'm not saying everyone has to be Gordon Gekko, but realize that money is important in our culture, and it's worth the effort to learn to manage it responsibly.
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